Giving up Lent for Lent

Give it up!  For Lent, that is…

Giving up something for Lent seems to have become more of a trend, a step to receiving the “I did it” badge, rather than an actual journey in spiritual life.  A Twitter search reveals some of the most popular items to fast at Lent include chocolate, fast food, sodas, and even Twitter itself.  One of my friends suggested she was giving up Hugh Laurie for Lent, a joke of course, and yet it occurs to me that is very reflective of the current attitude and approach to what is meant to be a profound experience in your spiritual life.

imageThe purpose of Lent is not the fasting itself, not the act of refraining from something you enjoy. Neither is it some kind of a contemporary sacrifice of modern comfort so that we can experience a piece of Christ’s suffering now.  Technically, there is no need to do that according to the Bible, for Christ’s sacrifice is already all-sufficient. No one can add or subtract from it. That is why Jesus said just before his death, “It is finished.” His work of grace and salvation was finished at the cross. The purpose of fasting is to disentangle ourselves from things that easily hinder us from our pursuit of Christ. Just as Jesus fasted in the wilderness to find strength in his walk with God even in physical weakness, we fast to focus on our walk with Him.  Jesus gave up the necessities: food and water.  We give up comforts and perks in life that distract us and pull our focus from Him. Hebrews 12:1 suggests, the giving up of things during Lent is a way of throwing off what “hinders,” so that we can run the race set before us.

We have somehow made Lent the race, and even reduced it to mini-sprints as we use the feast of Sabbath as a cheat. (“Sunday is coming, I can have a coke!”)  Somewhere along the way someone decided there was a contradiction in the ideologies of Lent and the feast of Sabbath, so they created a way to incorporate them both into an acceptable seasonal ritual.  What they actually managed to do is create another distraction.  How many people now are fasting during the week with their eyes on the relief of their day to cheat?  They focus on denying themselves their Lent sacrifice, finding comfort in the cheat to come, and totally miss the point.

Lent is a time of walking with Jesus, of talking to God the Father, and of sensing the moving of the Holy Spirit in our midst. It is not the taking away of something we have. It is the putting on of something we do not yet have. It is a time of shifting our focus from the repetitive and habitual tasks and experiences of day-to-day life, creating a seasonal awareness to remove the blinders so we can see the bigger picture of the resurrection of hope.  The fasting IS a celebration.  We don’t need to hang on to the weekly Sabbath Sunday celebration at the expense of the celebration that breaks from the ordinary things and catapults us into an intimate walk with our God.  The irony in having a cheat day during Lent is it reveals we have become enslaved to religious tradition as much as our coffee, sodas and social media.  Lent is meant to be counter-cultural – in weakness we find strength, in emptiness we are filled – just as the Sermon on the Mount suggested.  There’s an intentional shift away from worldly perspectives to a heavenly one.

It occurs to me Lent is meant to be a break from mundane thoughts and concerns to remind believers they are not just wanderers, but on a path to spiritual maturity.  The “doing” of spiritual disciplines is not as important as cultivating that relationship.  The most fatal sacrifice believers can make is looking for cheats in this journey.  I think next season I’m going to try for something new.  I’m not going to give up Lent for Lent.

In Sickness and In Health

He had her head on his shoulder, his hand gently caressing her arm as he spoke softly to her.

She’s had a stroke and is now in a wheel chair. She has a limited ability to talk and struggles to sit up straight in the chair.

He comes every day to sit with her. He tells her stories, describes her surroundings and reminisces about their years together.

I watched as he gently ran his fingers along her forearm, encouraging her to rest her head on his shoulder. “You know I’ve always loved when you lean on me,” he whispered. She was struggling to respond, but managed to mumble an apology.

His eyes filled with tears as he held her. He told her not to be sorry. “You’re my love,” he said. “There’s nowhere else I’d rather be than by your side.”

I couldn’t stop the tears from rolling down my face as he began quoting their marriage vows. “For richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad times…”

There’s nothing so beautiful to me as a love like this between a man and a woman. There’s nothing so profound as seeing that covenant in action, that commitment honored, that love embraced.

What comfort must it be to know you’re not alone facing the horror and pain as your body betrays you. How precious a gift to know you can walk the unknown path holding the hand of your love, to face the darkness with your life-long partner.

When facing the realities of life and aging, it’s impossible to pretend that love doesn’t matter.

The Long-term Unemployment Crisis

A recent article in the Atlantic reported on a study that examined the callback rates to interviews for a set of fake resumes where the only major difference was the duration the candidate had been unemployed.  The results weren’t surprising, and yet they do reflect a prejudice that may be setting up a snowball effect for future economic challenges, or at the very least a slower economic recovery.  It seems the biggest predictor of employment success for the job seeker is the length of time since your last job.  The invisible line of demarcation? Six months.

It’s not as if this concept hasn’t been around for years.  Explaining and underplaying these “gaps” is taught in almost every unemployment class and by recruiters and other advisors everywhere.  But in a time when economic crisis has pushed so many people beyond that six-month line is this a realistic demand for a hiring manager? Has this ideology become a prejudice that doesn’t only hurt job seekers, but the overall economic employment structure?

There are currently an estimated 4.6 million long-term unemployed in the United States, and 66% of those have been unemployed for over a year.  Did you process that?

To be counted as one of the long-term unemployed, an individual needs to have been out of the workforce for 6 months or more, be immediately available to start a job, and be actively pursuing employment.  Actively pursuing employment means sending out resumes, manually completing applications, interviewing or engaging in some activity that has the potential of actually gaining employment; simply searching job boards does not qualify as actively pursuing. There are 4.6 million people who meet the criteria, and according to many analysts that number is grossly underestimated.  Sixty-six percent, over 3 million of the “long-term unemployed,” have more than doubled the industry accepted amount of time to still be a viable candidate for employment.  Do you see the problem here?

These numbers increase monthly.  As new jobs open up, those people newly unemployed get the interviews, which logically results in the long-term unemployed continuing to be, well, unemployed and increasingly less viable.  Just to put numbers to this mayhem: 7.6% of the working-age population is unemployed and 40% of those have already reached the long-term unemployed status.  Every month those numbers increase as the number of new jobs reported are taken by the newly unemployed and the 3% of the working age population who are currently unemployed face a well-documented prejudice that will prevent them from obtaining employment.

Many analysts have started estimating the number of people dropping out of the workplace as a result of the long-term unemployed dilemma, and it is significant.  These numbers include the people who have chosen to stay-at home and adapt to becoming a one-income family, the people (usually those in their early 20s) who chose to go back to school for additional degrees, and those baby boomers who took an earlier retirement, electing to live beneath the level they originally worked to achieve, as well as those who have just given up and those who continue to look but are now requiring welfare assistance. The result of this exodus: the number of people in the workplace currently equates with the number of people in the workplace in 1980. That means the population increased, industry expanded with a burgeoning of hiring opportunities, and the number of college graduates increased exponentially and yet the workforce is smaller.  It also means there is a strain being placed on the system that weighs heavily against any job growth activity or economic initiatives.

It would seem some people are starting to think of the snowball effect beginning with continued foreclosures, reduced spending, and ending with an inadequate workforce as the jobs are created, but it doesn’t seem to be changing the attitudes in the workplace.  Hiring managers are stuck in the mindset they had during a good economy, not only regarding the 6-month demarcation, but also the notion that those long-term unemployed have not done their due diligence in remaining relevant to their industry.  The number of people seeking new certifications, joining networking groups, attending conferences, new trends/regulation downloads, etc. has remained the same even though the workforce has reduced.  How do you account for that if not for the unemployed staying firm in their goals and agendas?

There needs to be a paradigm shift, a real change in the ideologies and approaches to hiring.  The government initiatives for job growth are primarily geared toward the blue collar sector.  The stalemate is with the middle-management jobs and the white collar long-term unemployed who don’t have enough opportunities and aren’t considered for the few out there.  Even if they choose to “go where the jobs are” they need to first get trained in the blue collar sector.  They need training and certifications to work in the manufacturing and/or technical arenas that are opened.  That requires months and sometimes up to two years of training.  In the meantime, what do they do?  There’s not much they can do at this point.  They are caught in this Bermuda Triangle of a Long-term unemployment.  I wonder how long they will be lost in a system that has not adapted to the current crisis before change happens.